How do I take care of my engagement ring?

How Do I Take Care Of My Engagement Ring

Your ring is a symbol of the love and commitment that maintains the eternal bond between you and your loved one. It is imbued with the rich and deeply personal sentiment that will warm you for a lifetime, and with the proper care, it will always remain true to the sweetest and purest of emotions, and continue to give you a lifetime of joy. Or at least that’s the goal.

A diamond is the hardest natural material found anywhere on earth, which is part of the reason why they’ve been such a focus of intense adoration and obsession for millennia. But while they are extremely durable, they are not indestructible.

Strike perfectly along one of the planes of its crystal lattice and a diamond can be cleaved or chipped, and gold and platinum can easily be dented and scratched. Even incredibly tough metals like titanium can be damaged from wear and tear. Your diamond requires some reasonable care, and by following this infographic guide, it can provide years of pleasure and be handed down for future generations to enjoy. For more information on an engagement ring cleaning, read this article as well. 

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Things You Should Be Doing To Care For Your Ring

An engagement ring is one of the most precious (and expensive) gifts you will ever receive. It’s only natural that you’ll want to do everything you can to keep it looking as good as the day you received it. While using a high-quality jewellery cleaning solution at home is a great first step, you can take the relationship with your ring one step further. From taking it in for professional attention to taking it off altogether, your engagement ring care routine should go beyond just cleaning and polishing.

Discover our jeweller-approved tips for maintaining your engagement ring for as long as you both shall live.

Check out our extensive range of engagement rings at Temple & Grace.

Schedule professional cleanings.

Most jewellers, like Ritani, offer free cleaning services. Not only will your ring be steam-cleaned by an on-site jeweller, but it can also be examined under magnification to make sure the prongs are secure, and to check for diamond fractures and loose stones.

Experts say having a professional cleaning at least twice a year—much like a dental appointment—is a great way to manage your ring’s structural integrity and keep it as sparkly as the day you first slipped it on.

Use mild cleaning solutions.

Rumour has it Elizabeth Taylor would clean her 33.19-carat Krupp diamond ring in a combination of hot water and gin. However, the experts at Ritani say if you’re going to wash your ring at home, you should soak it in a mixture of warm water and mild dishwashing liquid for half an hour, before gently scrubbing it with a soft-bristle toothbrush.

Baking soda’s mild, non-abrasive consistency makes it another great choice for cleaning metals and precious stones. Pour a bit of baking soda into a bowl and mix it with warm water to create a soft paste. Take off your ring and use your fingers to gently rub the paste around the stone, the setting, and the ring. Rinse the ring in warm water and dry with a lint-free cloth.

Get insurance.

It’s amazing how many people overlook insurance coverage for their rings. With a price similar to that of a modest car but so much smaller and easier to lose, you’d think this would be a no-brainer.

Though it may be emotionally difficult to replace your original engagement ring, it’s nice to know that you won’t have financial difficulties to add to the misery if you do accidentally lose it.

And getting insurance can be quite easy. Especially because every Ritani engagement ring comes with a free expert appraisal, so you can easily submit it to your insurance company. In addition to the appraisal, you may want to include a close-up photo of your ring to keep on file as well.

Consider a “backup” ring.

Another increasingly popular option is what’s known as the “backup ring.” This is an alternate ring that may not be as valuable—monetarily or emotionally—and can be worn more regularly without the worry of it getting lost.

Many department stores and boutiques sell costume jewellery that looks very similar to real engagement rings and bridal sets. For some, substituting their ring for a stand-in is completely worth the additional price to avoid putting the real ring at risk.

Say no to chemicals.

Aside from cleaning products, chemicals like the ones in perfume, lotion and sunscreen can add residue to the ring and diamond, which can cause potential damage. Always remove your ring before applying these or any other products that may be made with harmful chemicals.

Check the weather.

Whether you’re making a quick run to the grocery store during a snowstorm or hiking in the Alps, most people’s fingers naturally get smaller due to the temperature. This means there is a risk that your ring could slide off during cold weather.

Alternatively, hot weather can cause fingers to expand and may cause your ring to feel uncomfortable. Either way, consider leaving your engagement ring at home when the temperature is intense outside and only sporting your wedding band.

Don’t risk the bling.

Certain activities put your ring at a higher risk than others. Sailing, for example. Dangling your hands out in the open sea while sipping champagne? Risky.

Even certain outdoor chores, like gardening, can be fraught with peril. Any situation that may make the ring especially dirty, or impossible to retrieve, should be carefully considered. If you’re unsure, err on the side of caution and leave the bling at home in our book.

Have a spot.

When you do take your ring off, it’s best to have a designated spot for it. A specific drawer in your jewellery box. Your bedside table. The smallest pocket in your purse. By having a known location for it, you cut back on the likelihood of leaving it somewhere you won’t remember later.

Whether you’re going to the gym or having a particularly in-depth house-cleaning session, it’s important to have a place where you put your ring and to make a habit of keeping it there.

Restore shine to white gold and platinum.

There comes a time when every white gold ring starts to dull, and a yellow hue begins to shine through. This is natural and unavoidable, no matter what care you give your ring.

White gold’s original sheen can be easily restored through a process called Rhodium plating. Not only will Rhodium bring back the shine of your ring that you fell in love with, but Rhodium plating can also make diamonds shine brighter. Depending on your activity level, the amount of care you give your ring and your body’s natural makeup, a white gold engagement ring can call for a Rhodium plating every six months to once a year.

Platinum rings do not need Rhodium treatments because platinum does not originally start as yellow. However, those who want a shinier platinum ring can opt to have their platinum band plated to be more reflective.

Caring For Your Diamond Engagement Ring


  • Do wear your ring to work: Yes, it might slightly get in the way from time to time, but unless your workplace is a diamond ring risk factor, feel free to flaunt your stone to your colleagues, boss, or employees.
  • Do clean the diamond. Just like the big diamond company, De Beers said, Diamonds are Forever! Only, once the facets are covered in dirt, grime, and gunk, the shine will not be as bright because the light simply isn’t refracting as well. You absolutely should clean the stone from time to time, and you might be surprised because it will shine just as bright as it did the first day you got it. The simplest way is to let it soak in warm soapy water for fifteen minutes or so and then carefully brush off the dirt with a soft-bristled toothbrush.
  • Do wear your ring to sleep: Though no one will get to see your shiny diamonds while you are dozing, you will feel safe knowing that your valuable piece of jewellery is right there with you while you get some sleep. Unless you are very prone to swelling during the night, there is no reason why you can’t enjoy your ring, even if you aren’t awake.
  • Do have your ring re-polished for time: Most engagement rings are made from either gold or platinum. The latter metal is beautiful and very sturdy but lacks the shine that gold provides. On the other hand, unless the gold is yellow or rose gold, the ring will need to be re-polished every so often. This is because white gold is crafted from a combination of metals, including yellow gold, and then dipped into a coating called rhodium. Every so often, especially if worn while doing certain tasks even as simple as showering or washing dishes, the coating will fade and give off a yellowish tint. In order to restore that beautiful, pure shine, you should have it re-coated and polished.
  • Do have your diamond secured periodically: If set properly, your diamond should be as secure as can be. However, your ring can get banged up quite a bit, just through daily wear, and you would be surprised how easily a tight, secure prong can be slightly loosened. Therefore, it is wise to make certain that the diamond is intact and not loose because it can fall out this way and there is nothing worse than looking at your hand only to see an empty setting.
  • Do respect your jewellery! Diamond or gemstone jewellery is always presented surrounding a happy occasion, so your piece’s sentimental value will often hold. Also, these pieces usually not very cheap. Someone (whether you or your partner) spent money on this piece and it is therefore in your best interest to maintain its quality for as long as you possibly can.


  • Don’t be afraid to show it off: Though that little velvet box can come in handy when you are not wearing your ring, it should not become the almost permanent home of your ring. Your ring was made and given to you to be worn, so, wear it! Don’t be afraid; rings were designed to be worn on a daily basis and should get as much use as possible.
  • Don’t bathe, swim, clean, or shower with the ring: If you truly want to maximize your ring’s appearance and minimize the amounts of visits you make to the jeweller, don’t wear your ring during these tasks. Water can damage the lustre of the metal as well as the diamond. Water contains many different chemicals such as chlorine and can be especially damaging. Although they might work wonders on your diamond, some chemicals used to clean can eventually damage the metal. Make use of your beloved velvet box, jewellery box, or invest in a ring stand kept in a convenient place, and store your ring there while you wash up.
  • Don’t clean or use abrasive materials and chemicals while wearing the ring: Treat your ring like a queen, yeah – respect it! This means that even if you have to do mundane chores such as cleaning, painting, or disinfecting, you shouldn’t involve your ring. Let it rest safely on the side until it is out of harm’s way.
  • Don’t get rough while wearing the ring: Sports, hiking, and other rough activities can be a great deal of fun, and terrific exercise as well, but they are also the perfect opportunities for something bad to happen to your ring. Make sure to remove your ring prior to engaging in any of these activities in order to prevent it from getting hit, dropped, or caked in dirt. Even if damage does not occur right away, something serious can happen to the setting of the diamond after being exposed to rough handling so often.

How often should I clean my engagement ring?

Every woman wants the radiance of her diamond engagement ring to remain. There is a lot of dirt and pollution, such as oil and dust, which will lessen your diamond’s sparkle. To avoid dirt and pollution, regular cleanings are very important tasks that you need to undergo. Cleaning helps you keep your engagement ring shiny-a repeated concern.

If you wish a professional jeweller to do the big cleaning for you, every six months is adequate. The advantage of taking your ring for cleaning to a jeweller, in addition to its professionalism, is that you can simultaneously check it. Otherwise, you can clean it at home four times per year. If you are interested in the second option, you need to know how to clean your engagement ring at home.

How can I keep my engagement ring shiny?

Since it is the most valuable possession of your life, you ladies certainly care for your diamond rings and want to take care of them. The engagement ring care tips below help you keep your engagement ring sparkling:

Do not touch its stone a lot: While putting your ring on and taking it off, do not touch its stone. Particularly diamonds absorb oil easily and being exposed to a lot of touching causes the stone to lose its original sparkle. Hold two sides of the metal band with your thumb and index tightly. Then, gently take off or put on your engagement ring.

Do not have it on while touching harsh chemicals: Metals react to harsh chemicals. Chlorine, solvents, detergents, and bleaches destroy the sparkle of your metal. Therefore, do not wear your engagement ring while doing kitchen chores, swimming in the swimming pool, and saunas.

Even moisturizers and lotions make your ring look dull. That is why you need to keep its dish around, so you can take it off easily, being sure that it will not get lost and not causing damage to the ring.

How should I protect my ring from getting lost?

The beauty and life span of engagement rings increases when you take good care of them. You care for your engagement ring as much as you do for your relationship since it is the sign of how it all started. When you make sure that your ring’s safety is guaranteed, you can pass on the valuable investment to the next generations. 

Insurance is a must! 

The undeniable reality is your diamond engagement ring has great value, especially from an emotional aspect. Therefore, if it is lost, stolen, or damaged, you cannot compensate it easily.

If any of the misfortunes happen, something can provide momentary relief for you: ring insurance. Your husband can purchase a rider in case he has any of these insurances: homeowners or renters. The ideal insurance is full coverage of the ring. In other words, if your ring is stolen, you can buy the same ring.

If he has not insured the ring already, do it yourself. You can ensure your ring as soon as you buy it exactly like when you insure your car before you start driving it. You need a description of your engagement ring for providing insurance, which includes – its carat weight, kind of metal, cut and appraisal. You can also submit a photo of your ring.

Every ring is different, and therefore needs to be cared for differently. Rings with platinum settings have slightly different care requirements than those with gold settings. Diamonds that are set on prongs also demand more careful attention then bezel settings. Find out what is expected of you from the jeweller upon your ring’s purchase and make sure that you stick to the regimen as best as possible for the utmost results. After all, an engagement ring is not something you buy or receive every day.

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